The April/May Issue of Hillsdale College’s Imprimis featured the text from a speech delivered by Senator Tom Cotton from Tennessee. The title was “Sacred Duty: A Soldier’s Tour at Arlington Cemetery.”
The 3rd United States Infantry Regiment is known as “The Old Guard.” In 1948 The Old Guard became the Army’s ceremonial unit. It this capacity, The Old Guard holds mission responsibility for performing military honor funerals in Arlington Cemetery.
Honorable Mr. Cotton served tours of duty in Iraq and Afghanistan. In 2007, between these tours, he served with The Old Guard. “While we often performed more than 20 funerals a day, we knew that—for the fallen and the family—each funeral was a once-in-a-lifetime moment, a lifetime in the making.”
Consequently, there is tremendous pressure to perform everything with precision and excellence.
“Each morning, casket teams practice folding the flag, even though they had folded thousands of them.” Also, “We talked through the key sequences and cues before each funeral, sometimes conducting the same talk-through six times in a day. Nothing was taken for granted.”
Question: In the work that we do, helping people prepare for the unexpected, should we give our work any less attention?
“Practice does not make perfect. Only perfect practice makes perfect.” (Attributed to Vince Lombardi)
Our Brains and Practice
In order to perform any kind of task, we must activate various portions of our brain. The brain develops a processing efficiency when specific actions and behaviors are repeated.
The human brain functions in a spectacular fashion. According to neuroscientists, neurons are the key to the brain’s power. A neuron is made up of:
- Dendrites which receive signals from other neurons
- The Brain Cell itself which processes those signals
- Axons which are like long cables that reach out and interact with other neurons’ dendrites
Communication between neuron cells happens when they send nerve impulses (electrical charges) down the axon of one neuron to the dendrites of the next neuron in the chain. This process is repeated neuron to neuron, and eventually the nerve signals reach the intended destination. The whole process happens at an incredibly rapid speed.
When we practice skills over and over, we cause those neural pathways to work more effectively. The physiological process is called “myelination.” Myelination allows nerve impulses to move more quickly.
This effectiveness can be unfortunate and detrimental. Practicing the wrong behavior makes the brain’s process of performing the wrong behavior more effective. We can become really good at performing very badly.
The lesson of neuroscience? Repetition is important, but repeating the right behaviors is critical.
Applications for Your Business
If you are an independent financial professional, this brain functionality has many important implications for your success. You only have so much time to speak face-to-face with clients or potential clients. In every client appointment you have a brief opportunity to present your concerns, recommend solutions and urge action. A great presentation should include context, drama, conflict, humor, and entertainment. A first-rate performance cannot be achieved without rehearsing.
Five Ways to Engage in Perfect Practice
First, you may not know how good or bad you currently perform. To improve, you first need to know what needs improving. The best tool for self-evaluation is to give a presentation or practice an actual client interview and have it videotaped. Things to look for:
- Purpose. Did you provide an agenda? Did you provide a preview of the topics that will be discussed? Did you introduce the purpose of the presentation, and then share why the presentation is important by reviewing implications and possible outcomes?
- Physical cues. Do you have proper posture? Are you slouching, folding your arms or making yourself appear smaller than you are? Do you maintain eye contact?
- Facial expression. Are you inviting to watch? Patronizing? Do you smile? Does your expression seem forced?
- Voice inflection. Are you sounding credible? Confident? Compassionate? Others-focused
- Hand gestures. Are your hands distracting? Do they accentuate your points?
- Content. Are you boring? Do you unnecessarily repeat words? Do you use humor effectively? Are you good at telling stories?
- Unintended communication. Did you sigh or yawn at any time? Did you look at your phone when it buzzed on the desk? Did you otherwise indicate that you wished to be somewhere else?
- Emphasis. Ask others to view the video. Can they correctly identify the points you were attempting to emphasize?
- Personality. Are you projecting the real you, authentically?
Practice your ability to speak enthusiastically, respectfully, with sincerity and conviction.
Second, choose a strong vocabulary. Words are not all equal in terms of impact. Words are cues. Words are triggers. The right words are capable of transforming an absolute “no” into an almost “yes” and a “perhaps” into “definitely!”
Practice using impactful, purposeful words. Words that engender an emotional response.
Examples:
- New
- You
- Proven
- Seize
- Limited
- Discount
- Profitable
- Authentic
- Reliable
- Assured
- Triumphant
- Admiration
- Authority
Start and end with key points and be certain to use the most impactful words in doing so.
Third, time yourself. It takes practice to communicate information succinctly without the fluff. Use shorter sentences. Pause with effectiveness. Trim your presentation so that you are neither repetitive nor superfluous.
Fourth, take notes. Whenever you notice that you stumble over your words, misstate something, make a mistake or have an uncomfortable moment, take note of the issue and consider how you will improve. After all, this is why you’re practicing in the first place. You can write down things like what you can cut out, ways to better emphasize certain parts, learning to enunciate important words or use better inflection. It will surprise you to discover a wide range of opportunities for you to become more effective when you take the time to look at yourself closely.
Fifth, seek feedback from existing clients. Ask them to rate you on these points:
- Are you relatable?
- Do you have a good sense of humor?
- Are you an active listener?
- Do you use effective analogies, metaphors or illustrations?
- Do you come across as fully “present” when with them?
- Do they feel talked “with” or talked “at?”
Practicing anything perfectly means seeing each skill as something new. At first, most things we do seem like old friends, familiar and comfortable. That feeling will never lead to improvement. Practicing perfectly means treating everything we do as if it is a new skill. Initially, it might feel stiff and awkward. But as we practice, our communication gets smoother and our presentations feel more natural and comfortable. What practice is actually doing is helping the brain optimize for this improved set of coordinated behaviors. Through the process of myelination our brains gain increased efficiency as behaviors are repeated. Practicing the right behaviors perfectly will cause us to perform perfectly.
We owe it to others to be effective in communicating and presenting. Through practice we can:
- Engage purposefully
- Listen patiently
- Communicate clearly
- Use stories effectively
- Create a warm atmosphere
- Speak in our own natural voice
- Properly use body gestures
Do clients deserve anything less?
How Fast Are You (And Your Money) Going?
Maybe at this moment you are sitting at a desk, or in a comfortable chair, motionless. At least you seem to not be moving when you look around at your surroundings. Or, maybe you are on a plane traveling at 500 Miles Per Hour. You know you are moving, even though you are comfortably seated. You can look down and see land passing beneath you. You are clearly in motion.
All speeds are relative. To measure speed you must measure the motion of other objects relative to an object at rest.
At the latitude where I live (36.3437 ° N) the earth is rotating around its axis at 800 MPH. That is crazy fast! Yet, I do not feel it. Then again, since the earth will complete one revolution in orbit around the sun in 365 days, a trip of 93,000,000 miles, I am on a spaceship moving at the speed of 66,000 MPH! Once more, I do not feel it.
The Sun revolves around the center of our Milky Way Galaxy, pulling along the orbiting planets with it (including earth) at the speed of 550,000 MPH. Mindblowingly (is that a word?) the Milky Way Galaxy is also moving, at the rate of 2,237,000 MPH.
Time to reach for the airsick bag. Time to hold onto something!
Speaking of time, it is integral to measuring velocity, as in, Speed = Distance/Time. Speed is also a factor in calculating time, as follows: Time = Distance/Speed.
Like our obtuseness toward speed, we are mostly oblivious to the passing of time.
Time always seems to flow perfectly normally for us, until we see the effects of aging and the changes in the society around us. When we attend a High School Reunion, it becomes clear to us that time is not uniform in its effects. We are occasionally jolted by the changes we see in others and in ourselves, but generally unperturbed by the incessant passing of time.
In a similar way, we are individually oblivious to the velocity of our money.
The Velocity of Money
The Velocity of Money is the rate at which money moves from one transaction to another. It refers to the rate at which people spend money. In day-to-day life, money moves at different speeds. For example, now that digital currencies are becoming more popular, the speed of that money transaction is quicker than anything we have known prior to its introduction. Appliances such as the Goldshell ck5 (goldshell ck5 buy now) allow cryptocurrency users to source more money, so transactions like this are of fast velocity – money is being passed between people and digital objects very quickly. It is used on a macroeconomic basis to refer to the money supply and its turnover in the national economy. It is a measure of how long people actually hold onto their money. Say for example you go into a poker room in a physical or Online Casino. You lose a bet of $10 to another person, then that person lost that money to another person, ect. The velocity of this little bit of money is going at an incredibly high speed because it has passed between several people in a short amount of time. Another example is if we are fearful for our jobs and thus hold onto our savings, this would mean that less money is circulating and thus the velocity of money is much slower. When we feel optimistic and confident in spending, the velocity of money will grow again. If we fear inflation coming on the horizon, and sense that the value of our money may begin depreciating quickly, we will increase spending now.
Therefore, the velocity of money simply means the movement and multiple uses of the same dollar. Just as it applies to the national economy, velocity of money is also the business model of banks. When we deposit money in the bank, the bank uses our dollars as leverage in order to borrow more money from the Federal Reserve. The bank utilizes our dollars, as well as leveraged dollars from the Fed, to extend loans to other people seeking credit or mortgages. As banks receive loan payments, they again borrow more from the Fed and consequently extend loans to more people. The banks are using the same dollars in multiple ways and making profits on the velocity of money.
Personal Money Velocity
Just as speed is relative, and time does not seem to impact everyone uniformly, so also do some people achieve greater financial success than others. Personal Money Velocity is one of the secrets behind wealth accumulation. The velocity of money concept that banks rely on can also be a valuable concept for us as individuals. We can make repeated use of our dollars to meet multiple needs.
It takes the assistance of a trained independent financial professional equipped with the right questions for most people to put the Velocity of Money concept to work for themselves.
According to Garrett Gunderson, the Money Velocity Equation* is simply our output divided by our input. Input is the hours people work in their careers, and the money they manage to set aside in savings and investments. Output is what people earn from their jobs and the returns on their financial accounts.
Money Velocity = Output ÷ Input
The goal is to increase the numerator (Output) faster than increasing the denominator (Input).
Helpful Questions for Use by Independent Financial Professionals
If you are an independent financial professional, your ability to help your clients improve their Personal Money Velocity is dependent on your skill in discovering opportunities by using right questions. Consider the following questions:
Summary
We know that “it’s not what you make, it’s what you keep.” We are also all aware that it’s how much cash flow goes into our personal savings and investment accounts (after taxes) which develops wealth. Independent financial professionals can help their clients increase their personal Money Velocity by asking the right questions.
Reference:
*https://www.forbes.com/sites/garrettgunderson/2015/11/28/new-wealth-equation-reveals-3-ways-to-grow-richer-without-working-harder/#5f14a2dc640f